Hello readers, this morning I’m attending an on-line seminar, via a ‘Zoom’ group link-up, of 10 people. The theme of the session is, “Explore writing as a tool for self reflection”. for many years now, I’ve been collecting my written thoughts and comments in my notebook files, and posting them on my site as “Tit Bits”, so in conjunction with my seminar (soon), I’m re-presenting “Tit Bit #15”, from Sept 2018….
“I’ve not written one these for a while, and I’ve enough of my comments stored in my Note-Book file to fill ‘War And Peace’ !! Thank you to all of my dear readers who comment on my writings, I am forever grateful, and may you all continue to inspire me to write these short poetry pieces about your marvellous posts.”
Tit Bits #15
I used to say, mum was the one
Dad was always there, daddy number one
Carole came along, she was my only one
They’re all gone, I was left with no-one
Myself has become an ultimate one
To you all, I cannot do without everyone
I love sharing my life
I love talking about my wife
Even though I’ve seen so much strife
She wouldn’t have it any other way
She graciously fought on, every day
My story will never explain her everlasting smile
My future is about trying for her, every mile
I know those old photo album feelings
Old memories and dusty dreams
Your heart might miss a beat
They’ll be tears at your feet
You’ll need a comfy seat
Bathe in the images, so sweet
Life’s rotation process is endless
Watermill wheels keep on turning
I’m writing on recycled paper
Word’s from my heart are countless
Morning birds sing, but do not see
By day, I’ll look like a flowering tree
By night, hear my wisdom howl
Like a lonely Tawny Frog-mouth Owl
Beware, there’s more
You’ll be shown the door
By the bolt of Thor
I’ve been inspired by my tour of yesterdays street art in Geelong, and the magnificent mural of Chrissy Amphlett, so here she is, singing with the Divinyls
Ivor Steven (c) September 2018

Ivor, I like the way you talk about those you have loved…your parents, your wife, yourself, and fellow bloggers. I am sure they all loved you in return. My list is similar to yours. I took care of my quadriplegic husband for 18 years before he died, and all the time we spent together is precious to me. I liked both the poem and the music. thanks for sharing. All the best! Cheryl
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Thank you Cheryl, I had a feeling you more than understood my situation…. And now I’m looking forward to my ‘Seminar’ in about 50mins …😀😊
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You do stay busy Ivor. Your poem really reflects your loss and you love for your wife. Do you have children who live nearby?
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I have a step-son, but he lives in Sydney , and under present travel restrictions, who knows when we’ll meet again….
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I hope you have some good local friends for support!
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Normally I do, but we are in Lockdown, and visitors aren’t allowed… I’m coping ok… but enthusiasm and happiness are low…
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I can understand that! Past my bed time … I will check in tomorrow!! :>)
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What lovely thoughts of love and memories
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Thank you Beth
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Beautiful tribute to people who have gone away, I know for sure they are watching you from above. Bless you.
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Thank you Tanya…
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My pleasure 😇
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You write the most soulful memories about those you loved and their love for you and still love you. The love flows from them to you daily endlessly.
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Thank you for your lovely message Nanette, I was fortunate enough to be surrounded by love from a young age 💙❤🌏🐧
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great poem worthy of those who go before .. love the divinyls!
Enjoy your Zoom group, sounds interesting 🙂
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Oh humbug, my Zoom meeting didn’t happen, my damn Wifi went went at precisely the wrong time….. I’m very disappointed…. hopefully she’ll be running another one soon… 😥
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oh beggar, maybe you need to change net provider … I’ve changed a few times when they mucked me about!
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Hopefully I’ll get another opportunity, but I’m fairly shattered at the moment….
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then rest up!
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This brought tears. 😦 I know all those who loved you mostest and bestest AND who you loved the mostest and bestest….your Dad, your Mum, your Carole…you miss them the so much….but they are with you in thoughts, memories, and heart…watching over you with love.
But, I know, with all of them gone, the days can be long and lonely. 😦
Please take good care of yourself. Find the joys in each day, even if they are small joys. Know that you, and your writing, are a joy to so many of us.
The Zoom group, and topic, sounds wonderful! 😉
(((HUGS)))
🐧 🙂 🦉
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Humbug, I lost internet WiFi just before it started, by the I got It back , the meeting was locked…. ….. I sent the convener an email apologising….. I was so disappointed,,,, but she emailed me later and said she would have another one later in the year….. still… I was very upset… like a kid losing his special toy….
Thank you for kind thoughts and lovely words… they mean a lot to me… 😀😍… and I your heart vibes from my little haven… 😍💙
((Hugs))
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Aw! 😦 That makes me sad. 😦
Darn Wifi!
Hang in there! 🙂 😀 😛
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I’m over today… and writing and blogging…and chatting Oscar and Phillip.. 🐧🦉💙🌏
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Thank you for sharing this delightful post with us all 💛🧡❤💙🙂
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It’s older piece that I touch up a bit today…. 😀😍
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Oh I do so know what you mean…I amend mine constantly! 🌻🌺🌻🦋
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What a beautiful tribute to the ones you love. ❣️
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Thank you Eugenia, ❤💙😍
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You’re welcome, Ivor! 💛
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This made me really emotional…got teary eyed…as i am witnessing one of probably the greatest love stories i’ve ever known right through your words…😍😍😍
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Your heartfelt kindness warms my soul Mich, bless you. 😍🐧💙🌏
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That is a truly wonderful poem Ivor!
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thank you Kim…😀🌏
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Beautiful thoughts and treasures memories 🙂
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Sorry Sue, I didn’t get back to you… I was in the middle of my on-line Thursday night pub chat… we went for over 2 hours… a bit of fun and catch-up… really a great thing to in these present circumstances… 😀😉
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Never worry about not getting straight back to me, we none of us sit glued to our machines!
Zoom made a massive difference to me during our full lockdown, it’s such fun too! I am so glad that you enjoyed your evening 🙂
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Thanks Sue…. yes a joyful night, but without the reality of of being together…
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