I received this interesting post from Janebasilblog today. Starting this week, Calen, at Impromptu Promptlings, invites us to revisit the Sandbox Challenge. She begins with a loosening up exercise, asking us four questions about ourselves. Here are the questions and my answers:
If you were asked to choose seven words to describe yourself, what would they be?
* Happy
* Empathetic
* Trusting
* Loyal
* Romantic
* Determined
* Emotional
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If you were asked to choose seven objects that have meaning for you, what objects would you choose?
* My photo albums and picture gallery
* My Music collection
* Dad’s orchids that I care for
* Carole’s memorabilia
* A poetry book Melpomene, in which a poem of mine, was my first published works
* The bookcase my grandpop made for me
* Mum’s round brass antique coffee table.
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If you were asked to choose seven colors that have meaning for you, what colors would you choose ?
* White – like a dove, the sign of peace
* Red – the colour of Carole’s hair
* Blue – like the sky above
* Ocean Blue – the origin of life
* Green – the colour of Mother Nature
* Orange – my colour of happiness
* Neutral Gray – wouldn’t it be nice for the whole world to be neutral
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If you were asked to choose seven places that have meaning for you, what places would you choose?
* “Tullawalla” our old family home in Ocean Grove
* Port Fairy, south west coast of Victoria, “Our” favourite camping holiday destination, special glorious times, and the friends we camped with are still my besties
* My home, probably my final abode, now proudly called “Tullawalla”
* The Ocean Grove surf beach, the sands of time here, soothes my soul.
* My sporting/football Club “Bell Park”, my lifelong community involvement group, and where “our” wedding reception was held 42 years ago, and where I still socialize.
* 27 Logan St, North Geelong, the family home for the first 20 years of my life, my childhood was blissful and it’s where all my dreams were born and fostered.
* The gorgeous site where Carole’s ashes lay…… It’s the old Geelong West Cemetery, for me the most beautiful place in the universe.
For Jane, Thank You for the inspiration to write this article…..
Featured Image:Β Ivor and Carole on the beach at Port Fairy, 1978.
Ivor Steven (c)
This was very touching
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You handsome devil you! Carole is gorgeous! π
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Oh my, 40 years ago, I think I’ve aged a bit. π
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Ah! Yet your inner beauty (handsomeness) still shines through in your writing and that’s what counts! π
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Aaawe Gee. Ta….
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A touching post, a photo to treasure, and an interesting challenge.
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Thanks Robert, although I found it a difficult task, and aptly named “A Challenge”
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it looks difficult!
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It’s a lovely picture of your wife with that gorgeous hunk :D. You’ve got some interesting replies there, espececially the list of memories – like me, you’ve held onto something from each eara of your life.
I’m pleased that you’ve made friends with Calen. She’s special to me.
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We’re chatting at the moment, thank you for the introduction. And she’s interested in my writings. xx
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Of course she is – she likes well-turned words, and she likes good people xx
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I saw this challenge on Face Book a few years ago, I attempted to do it back then, but changed my mind so often that I gave up on it. For instance What’s your favourite place? Home, no wait, it’s work, no no, it’s the wine bar! Actually no it’s always Home! π
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Its wasn’t easy to answer all the questions Sue, but I’m happy that I had a go at it, and pleased that my readers got to know more about Ivor from Geelong
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So touching this post.sweet and makes us all feel privileged that you revealed essential pieces of you with us.
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Thank you Ortensia, I’m happy you felt my all my good vibes.
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Such lovely answers and Oh my are you handsome or what? π Very cool picture β€
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Thank you Soiba, that was a long time ago, and I’m glad you you liked the email I sent you, My week has been a very pleasant one, full of lots of joy and happiness, I’m so grateful that I was able to share my gladness xx
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I’m so happy for you and I wish you the best coming weeks too xx
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It was very sweet and touching as well π
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Thank you Sanskriti, for reading my post …., all about me ….. I’m happy you liked my words.
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It was great knowing you π
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I loved reading more about you and your coloutful replies. so much love and happiness in your life Ivor.
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Thank you Gina, it was a challenge to write about myself in a personal way. I usually write about the world around me, and of course Carole π, I’m glad you liked the post. π
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I saw it early this morning but kept it till last as I knew it would be filled with beautiful yet touching words. I am glad I did. its made my rubbish day a lot better. thank you for sharing especially about lovely Carole. my second daughter has culry hair just like her!
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That’s nice I’ve improved your “ruddish” day. I’m not sure I got all my answers right, but on reading my post tonight, I think it’s fairly accurate. π π. Overall I think I was trying to convey that “true love conquers all” π
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there’s not supposed to be wrong or right answers! right?!. you are a romantic Ivor. true love….I am glad there’s people like you in the world.
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You’re so sweet Gina, I always try to stay positive and happy π, because Carole taught me no matter how bad things are for yourself, you can still smile and be kind to your to those around you. π π β€οΈ
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I can relate to that. whenever I feel like giving up I think that my Joshua loved my smile and I smile for some one. he had the best smile though. I try to keep positive, I won’t lie its tough amd a lot of work. oh “rudfish” snd “culry” hair!
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I know it’s hard to stay strong, but our angels are to help us through. And please don’t worry or stress about the bad days, they shall continue, it’s just that over time we’re able to cope betterer, with hiding away crying by ourselves πππ. The main thing is that we’re not alone, and keep loving life ππ
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awww….thank you so much for this Ivor and sorry I did not reply earlier, got carried away with blogging I had to rush off to get to the other end of the city to support a friend at a poetry reading. A little crying helps, and I think I have to go this alone, for a time anyway. You give much light, thank you!
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Don’t be sorry about replies and comments, I myself get so far behind on my reader, sometimes I feel embarrassed. I do like to chat and comment on what I read, I suppose it’s me seeking the comfort of others soothing words….. and I sometimes think I take on too much, but then again it all stops me from sinking back into empty times and spaces
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Thank you for understanding. Words and connection comfort me very much and I am sometimes guilty of leaning too much on the strength others give me here (you are now part of my merry bunch of awesome light bearers!) and we need that to stop falling back into a place of gloom. So chat away I am happy to read all your thoughts, and as for replying I always will, though like you it can be a little or very late in coming! But I appreciate every comment. We need to fill those lonely gaps with lots of life.
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Agree wholeheartedly..
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Oh I meant “right” in the sense that I didn’t leave anything important out of the answers ππ
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Hey Ivor! So glad you took the βplungeβ (seeing as how youβre sitting by the sea there! π ) Yes! Carole is beautiful! Look at that curly head of hair. How long ago did you lose her? I can really relate to your story as I was diagnosed with the autoimmune disorder Myasthenia Gravis in June. What a trial. My heart goes out to you.
I had a V-8 moment and hit myself in the forehead when I read your comment about the white dove. Thatβs such a well-known reference, but it never crossed my mind. I wonder if that means Iβve given up on having peace in the world???
Oh! And thanks so much for the follow. I look forward to reading your blog!
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Thank you Calen for your articulate reading of my “Trenches”, and Carole’s been gone for over 5 years. I hope you’re coping with your Myasthenia Gravis and that your condition is reasonably stable. π Dear Carole’s MS, was bad to start with and progressive over the 30 years. Please never give up on peace β, one of our purposes as writers is to maintain awareness about our world’s situation. π
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Couldn’t agree with you more about the awareness. If not us, then who? π
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I’ve written quite a few world comment poems, maybe you’ll like this like one. Haha most of my poems are reasonably short, I think I lose concentration quickly. Oh the poem.. “It’s Time”
https://ivors20.wordpress.com/2017/07/25/its-time/
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Oh I’ve just noticed, and thank you for following my blog/website, muchly appreciated, hope you enjoy reading my humble writings, and I’m from Geelong, Australia. Cheers. Ivor π
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I was wonder if it was Victoria, Vancouver Island in Canada. π
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Haha, coincidentally I’ve a cousin living there.
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Well how cool is that! I love Victoria…
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It is so amazing to see you and Carole! Forty years ago it feels like time travel. The seven adjectives are so you β€ It is amazing when you know yourself so well that you are able to pick just the right words to fit your description. Just like in every one of your poem your soulful self shines through in your answer to this very intimate challenge.
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Thanks dear “B”, you’re a sweet ladyπ And now I’m friends with dear Diana, I think I’m a very lucky guy, the friendships are all soulfully soothing for me βΊοΈπ
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β€ we all are lucky one my Ivor. Our friendships feel very loving, caring and comforting to me too. That and you are so talented, your words run deep with life and emotions. It is a treat knowing you.
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Aaawe, double blushes, you know I’m emotional π
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That’s all good, so am I π
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I love the picture Ivor. And all of the things that make up ‘you’ are such lovely things indeed.
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It’s a favourite pic, And yes, I seem to be made up ok !!
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Yes you are! And I can see why it’s a favorite. YOu both look soooooooo happy!
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Yes we were, Those Port fairy holiday times were absolutely the best !!
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This was so nice. I like the seven things that means the most to you…All things that money cant buy. What a wonderful post and idea
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It wasn’t that easy to write, had to research into my inner thoughts, haha, usually tucked away out of sight….
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I hear ya on that
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You have that twinkle in your eye, Ivor. What poetry is bubbling up from your soul I wonder?
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Not sure Kelvin, but it’s always bubbling …
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I think I could not find seven of anything!
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Hi Russel, thanks for reading so many of my poems
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