G'day, and welcome to my blog site. My name is Ivor Steven, I live in Geelong, Australia. I'm an ex-industrial chemist, and a retired plumber, and a former Carer of my wife(Carole), for 30 years, who suffered from severe MS. I Write poetry about those personal thoughts, throughout and beyond my life as a Carer.
I've been blogging for over 2 years, and writing poems for 19 years. Of course a lot of my poems are about my favourite subject Carole, but since I've been blogging my writings have become quite varied, humourous, mystical, observational, and even a few monster/horror poems.
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It was a very evocative and stressful time…. the medical profession weren’t going to allow her to go home…. I won !!…. see lived comfortably at home for another 3 years….. 😀😍
You did the right thing to ensure Carole remained at home to be cared for with love. Carole is a special soul one of great endurance, peace and love, she set a standard we should all apply. The care homes are cold and lonely places to be. This was no place for Carole she deserved the best. You made sure she received the best. Blessings to you always Ivor and every day is a tribute to the love you shared with Carole. The love flowed both ways and still does.
Thank you Nanette for your truly lovely comments and endorsement of Carole’s gracious courage, and love of life, no matter the circumstances, and was indeed a glorious example of “Where is Love”
Where Is Love
Behind every word
There’s a thought
Between every thought
There’s an emotion
Underneath the emotion
There’s a heartbeat
Below the heartbeat
There’s a soul
Within the soul
There lives love
Behind every word
There’s a thought
Between every thought
There’s an emotion
Underneath the emotion
There’s a heartbeat
Below the heartbeat
There’s a soul
Within the soul
There lives love
And to think they were going to deny her that 3 of comfort happiness, because they thought I couldn’t handle the job…… Well after a bucket of tears and one sided argument…(there way a panel of 4, and then just me and my case manager)…. they allowed her to stay home with me… and big win us.. and dear Carole…. xx
At the time It was very upsetting… but with help from my case manager, the right decision was made in the end… .. I never told Carole what was going on… she just thought she was going home, like always, after one of her hospital stays…. 😀😊
This brings tears of joy! 🙂
When a person has a good, loving, safe, etc., home…then that is where they should be if they can be. I’m so proud of you for fighting for what was best for her…what she’d want.
I know she would have done the same for you if the tables had been turned.
Why? Because that is what people do for each other when they love each other. 🙂
Still crying. 🙂
HUGS!!! 🙂
Oh…don’t cry … I won the battle… and Carole was able to live happy and comfortable for the next 3 years, and she kept smiling at me every morning.
… Oh what a gorgeous and glorious start to my day …. 💙💜🌏 ((hugs))
i so love the part of the air you shared – the epitome of a steadfast love. oh you are her knight Ivor, valiant and dashing to her rescue, no one could conquer your formidable stance! this is the most beautiful romantic poem to me. Sigh
Thank you Gina, and I’m in bed now, and smiling broadly at your gorgeous comments,.. Like I’ve been kissed on the forehead just before I’m to fall asleep. 😊😴😴
Very evocative poem
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It was a very evocative and stressful time…. the medical profession weren’t going to allow her to go home…. I won !!…. see lived comfortably at home for another 3 years….. 😀😍
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That must have been the best decision you made.
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It was well worth the battle… 😀😍
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I can imagine
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Beautiful, sweet poem. I am sure it was better for both of you to be at home together. I know I would have felt that way. ❤ Cheryl
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I had to battle the establishment, but it was well worth the effort, and she was happy and comfortable for the next 3 years…..
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How wonderful for you fought for her to be home – that is love
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See was far more comfortable at home, and kept smiling for another 3 years…. 😍🙄
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You did the right thing to ensure Carole remained at home to be cared for with love. Carole is a special soul one of great endurance, peace and love, she set a standard we should all apply. The care homes are cold and lonely places to be. This was no place for Carole she deserved the best. You made sure she received the best. Blessings to you always Ivor and every day is a tribute to the love you shared with Carole. The love flowed both ways and still does.
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Thank you Nanette for your truly lovely comments and endorsement of Carole’s gracious courage, and love of life, no matter the circumstances, and was indeed a glorious example of “Where is Love”
Where Is Love
Behind every word
There’s a thought
Between every thought
There’s an emotion
Underneath the emotion
There’s a heartbeat
Below the heartbeat
There’s a soul
Within the soul
There lives love
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You expand your love like no other.
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It was the best decision …am sure Ivor..and Carole, was well loved by you 😍😍
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Love shall find a way
Where Is Love
Behind every word
There’s a thought
Between every thought
There’s an emotion
Underneath the emotion
There’s a heartbeat
Below the heartbeat
There’s a soul
Within the soul
There lives love
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Awwww…..my heart meltsse💞
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💜💙🌏😊
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3 more years of precious loving memories … soulmates forever Ivor!
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And to think they were going to deny her that 3 of comfort happiness, because they thought I couldn’t handle the job…… Well after a bucket of tears and one sided argument…(there way a panel of 4, and then just me and my case manager)…. they allowed her to stay home with me… and big win us.. and dear Carole…. xx
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wow it seems so wrong when you have to argue to take a loved one home!
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At the time It was very upsetting… but with help from my case manager, the right decision was made in the end… .. I never told Carole what was going on… she just thought she was going home, like always, after one of her hospital stays…. 😀😊
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yes and that cuts deeper when you keep it from a loved one to save them the anguish …
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There’s No Place Like Home! Enjoyed the song too. 🙂
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Thank you Sue…
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A stand of love, Ivor. XX
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Yes Indeed Derrick…
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This brings tears of joy! 🙂
When a person has a good, loving, safe, etc., home…then that is where they should be if they can be. I’m so proud of you for fighting for what was best for her…what she’d want.
I know she would have done the same for you if the tables had been turned.
Why? Because that is what people do for each other when they love each other. 🙂
Still crying. 🙂
HUGS!!! 🙂
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Oh…don’t cry … I won the battle… and Carole was able to live happy and comfortable for the next 3 years, and she kept smiling at me every morning.
… Oh what a gorgeous and glorious start to my day …. 💙💜🌏 ((hugs))
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PS…I love Mr. Waits! And that is a fav song of mine…it has helped me many times. 🙂
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It is mine too Carolyn,….xx
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This is so very poignantly and movingly versed in its gentle but powerful and strong voice 😢❤❤❤❤❤
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They were very stressful times, I need to have strong voice…💙💜🌏
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Yes so very true ❤❤❤
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i so love the part of the air you shared – the epitome of a steadfast love. oh you are her knight Ivor, valiant and dashing to her rescue, no one could conquer your formidable stance! this is the most beautiful romantic poem to me. Sigh
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Thank you Gina, and I’m in bed now, and smiling broadly at your gorgeous comments,.. Like I’ve been kissed on the forehead just before I’m to fall asleep. 😊😴😴
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Sweet dreams dear friend.
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How wonderful you stood up for her best interests! That’s true love. 🌹
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Thank you Eugenia. 💙💜😊
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Hello Is this your private photo? https://bit.ly/3bynjLy 152561327704919152561327704919
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Oh, Ivor. This is so beautiful, but also breaks my heart.
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Thank you Rose, and yes this one is full of emotion….. but I did have a win, and Carole lived comfortably and happily at home for another 3 years…. 😍
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So beautiful love the flow of it..
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Thank you dear Deb 💙🌏
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💛💜💛
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