Some days arrive quietly and leave a lasting tremor in the heart. Today was one of them. This finale 75th birthday wasn’t just a celebration of another year — it became a gathering of the people who have walked beside me through the most profound chapters of my life.
This group of friends is woven into every part of Carole’s story. They were there when she and I first met, full of hope and laughter. They were there when MS entered our lives forty‑four years ago, offering care, strength, and the kind of support that can only come from people who love without hesitation. Through three decades of Carole’s battle, they stood with us — not as visitors, but as family.
And even after Carole passed fourteen years ago, the thread didn’t break. Every three or four months, we gather to honour her astonishing life — her compassion, her grace, and that infectious smile that could soften any room. Today, on my birthday, that ritual became something deeper. It felt like a circle closing gently around memory, friendship, and the enduring presence of a woman who shaped us all.
The Crew, and my birthday Barbeque Apron present; a handcrafted gift by Dot … “Macbeth shall never vanquished be until Great Birnam wood to high Dunsinane hill Shall come against him.”
Everlasting (a Tanka)
This circle of friends, like a silver wedding ring, bright and long-lasting, lovingly loyal and strong — yet time does not weary them.
A tune for the long road we’ve walked together — still singing, still smiling. A journey that continues to be brightened by loyal friends.
A small conversation with age itself — seventy‑five years in my bones now, and Frankie turning ten beside me, both of us learning how to age with a bit of grace and a bit of mischief, reminding us that growing old is just another way of staying present.
When I Am Old
If, I was young back in nineteen-sixty-one – no, when I am young again, without these strokes of pain down the other side of my brain
I will remember that day in November when Mum said, (with a cheeky grin), “Never marry a redhead.” Then Dad (who was a redhead) smiled and wisely told me “There’s always more fish in the sea, but be careful what you wish for beyond your front door.”
As I became a young man, I asked for a redhead’s hand. Alas, beyond the garden’s flowers, life is both sweet and sour.
Thereupon, my dear parents elected to be our loving warrants and held our hands above life’s deepening quicksand.
A piece of music for the quieter hours — for the moments when age speaks softly and reminds us how to stay present.
A quiet moment in the grass this morning — just me, my camera, and a lone mushroom in the light to guide me down memory lane — a soft umbrella for tired legs and fading recollections. This poem is the path I followed beneath its shelter.
I don’t often do this, but before the poem, I’ve added a song that’s always offered me a quiet kind of shelter. Dylan’s Shelter from the Storm feels like the right companion for this morning’s walk and the memories that followed.
Memory Lane
I’m slowly drifting back along a familiar winding track.
My old legs feel like used lard — I can’t travel another yard; the climb has been long and hard.
Please, can you give me shelter here, under your mushroom’s umbrella?
Let my weariness rest for a few moments while my memory lane’s missing residents struggle to recall who’s the President.
And as the day drifts on, this song carries my missing dreams down along memory lane.
In the cool, silvery hush between daytime calm and midnight cloud‑glow, tonight’s full moon drifts above, coinciding with the poem’s own shifting rhythms below.
Below the Coconut Palms
The world’s a sphere of disparity, like the incongruity between the becalmed daytime moon and the shiny orb’s cloudy midnight party — savouring dark-side ice cream with a silver spoon and sipping on milky star-dust until noon.
While down here on planet Earth, between Perth and Fort Worth, I perceive nothing is calm below the empty coconut palms.
Where wanderlust meets wonder — let this song carry you to the far places your heart remembers.
Nancy’s, Lai “Singed” challenged me to try the form myself. I’d never written a Lai before, but her poem inspired this first attempt — a small reply shaped from her spark. Nancy: Singed – The Elephant’s Trunk
A traditional lai is a short French poetic form built on a pattern of nine lines, arranged in three stanzas. Each stanza follows this structure:
Lines 1–2: 5 syllables, same end rhyme
Line 3: 2 syllables, repeated refrain
Lines 4–5: 5 syllables, same end rhyme
Line 6: 2 syllables, repeated refrain
Lines 7–8: 5 syllables, same end rhyme
Line 9: 2 syllables, repeated refrain
The rhyme scheme is: a a b / a a b / a a b
The refrain (“truth hurts”) repeats at the end of each stanza, giving the lai its heartbeat.
Feature Image Above:A pale, gold sun, a held breath, a path unfolding —and a quiet truth still finds its way through.
Early yesterday morning, I read Gigi’s fierce and tender poem, and something in her words stirred an old ache of my own. What began as a quick response grew into this small reckoning — a quiet look at age, longing, and the goals that slip beyond our grasp.
Still offline, still smiling. While the internet takes its sweet time returning, I’ve tapped out a whimsical little poem on my tiny iPhone screen — a lighthearted look at my ongoing battle with the great digital void. Hope it brings a grin.
And fittingly, as this article goes live, I’m pleased to announce that my internet connection has finally returned.
No Connection, or Seven Rhyming Couplets
I’m in isolation; I have no internet connection.
Now falling beyond day five, without my writer’s bee hive.
ISP could not solve the problem – oh, what a sad conundrum
There’s a frog and toad on the outside pole’s naughty node.
Linesmen, trucks, and ladders are required; I’m frustrated, tired, and uninspired.
Might be fixed in another 48 hours … plenty of time to pluck more moonflowers.
Now climbing into day seven, I’m sailing up the internet’s stairway to heaven.
And now, with the moon back in view and the wires behaving, here’s the song that carried me through.
This poem was penned in May 2024 and quietly tucked away. Rediscovering it today felt like stepping back into the room where it began, so I’ve gently revised it for my Throwback Friday reflection.
The Universe Beyond My Wardrobe’s Doors (Revised)
I live in a small, compact villa. My abode is comfortable and cozy. The bedroom doubles up as my writer’s studio and library.
The wardrobe’s doors are near the end of my bed. On the doors, I hang a calendar and a special photo of me and Carole taken for our 25th anniversary
I gaze at the calendar and ponder. The appointments are in black, important dates are marked in red, and my poetry events are scribbled in blue.
The calendar has many blank squares — the days I spend writing. I write to her about love and coping. I write for myself, about life and nature.
I write for everyone who reads my poems. I write my thoughts about humanity’s existence within the universe and the great beyond. I write words, “Until Eyes Hear Sound.”
As the room opens into the universe once more, here’s a song to travel with — much like Melanie’s lovely old “Look What They’ve Done to My Song, Ma,” carrying my memories back into the light.